Step 3 - Work on how you treat others
How come some people always seem to get along with others and others don’t?
Some of us are born socials, but for those of us that aren’t, there is a way to improve. Dealing with people is actually quite easy if you follow some ground rules.
Don’t be an asshole, don’t complain, be honest and listen to others. That’s what it basically comes down to.
Dale Carnegie wrote a must-read book on this subject - How to win friends & influence people - and whereas the title might sound a bit strange, this content is extremely valuable.
I’ve read this book about five times, and everyone I know that’s read it was as enthused as I am - let me know if you are not. In the broadest of lines, the book will teach you how to get people to like you, how to win people to your way of thinking and how to be a leader.
This video will teach you the basic principles by showing you what the opposite of Carnegie’s advice would look like.